Let me share with you my 3rd Law of Self-Empowerment:
Time away from a difficult moment DOES give you clarity! ~ Dr. Angi
They say time heals all wounds. I say not only does it heal all wounds, but it also transforms them into blessings and opportunities. We gain clarity as time passes, as long as we do not relive that raw moment in our thoughts.
When in the midst of a “challenging circumstances”, it is harder to see; but, by allowing ourselves time to grieve, meditate and pray, we will find ourselves transformed. Our spirits become stronger and eventually encouraged. Negatives become positive. Raw moments become moments of clarity, focus, and direction.
For example: I recollect a time when I was given a speeding ticket, even though there were clearly others going faster than me. I was not a happy camper at that unpleasant moment. I was livid; but, by taking a moment to breathe and literally slow down, I came to see that I needed to own up to my infraction because I was exceeding the speed limit. You see, I gained clarity of the situation. I accepted it. I slowed down both my vehicle and my thoughts. As it turned out, the cars that were going faster than me ended up getting into an accident.
So, you can see, we just need to be patient and be open to receive this gift of lucidity. Time away from a difficult moment does give us clarity.
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